That's what friends are for

I had a great time catching up with my really long time friends. I love them both a lot and if you actually met the three of us you would wonder how we are such good friends. We are totally different personalities. We have been friends for ages and have seen each other through ups and downs.

Best part is that even though we meet rarely there is no awkwardness. We can talk to each other about anything and still not worry that the other person would judge us. Of course as good friends you will only get honest opinions from them and that's what good friends are for. I have been the most wildest of the three which isn't a surprise because I'm the most outgoing types of the three of us. We have good time talking about our experiences and are also astonished at the change in each of our lives.

We've been friends since school and shall always be :-) I love you both Mighty and Zans!

Does your heart rule your mind?

Most often than not your heart tells you the truth but that may or may not be practical. But that really doesn't matter when the decisions taken have to be sincere. I agree that it is not possible to please everyone and by taking certain decisions you would end up hurting someone. However, if it is from your heart then one day or the other, people who care for you would understand.

At the same time mind keeps a tab on your heart so that you don't go around hurting others as well as yourself. For me heart ruling the mind hasn't worked too well cause it just doesn't work that way. And if you want to know that you are headed in the right direction listen to your heart and give time before you make your decision. There is no right or wrong decision as no one knows what tomorrow holds for each of us or probably even the next second. Life is so unpredictable that it is better to live each moment to its fullest and leave your decision to time. I'm sure that you would get a convincing reply to your question/s.

Take care and have a grt week! Thanks for reading :-)

Lessons I learnt....

Life has been really interesting and shall always be to me. There have been situations in my life which has made me a more patient and understanding person. I have realized my potential and have amazed myself this time around. Others around me also see me as a more calm and composed person as by nature I'm the aggressive as well as impulsive type.

Taking things as they come and living for the moment is the most important lesson I have learnt. It is truly easy to talk about rather than practising it. Another thing that I have learnt is to address issues then and there without fearing that I would be hurting someone. Also realized that anything could be addressed in a easy and simple manner if we use our mind logically rather than getting emotional. I have given myself plenty of quality time and see that it is actually turning out to be quite beneficial in every decision I need to make.

Life is so much better than I ever thought it was and I really love myself so I wouldn't be doing anything in an impulsive momentum which would hurt my family. I love them !

So believe in thinking positive :-)

Many instances in life really prove that thinking positively really makes a huge difference to our lives. It is easier than done during tough times to think about anything good or look forward to our lives. I strongly believe that if you haven't harmed anyone actively or passively, you will get your due some day. Life has been really interesting for me and if there is a word to describe it as more than beautiful I would :-)

Taking each day as it comes has really helped me understand myself better and deal with the most unexpected events in my life. For me it is difficult to think bad about anyone no matter how much sorrow they have brought into my life and people that I love. I truly believe that you will get your due whether it is good or bad and strongly believe in law of karma. I feel that as long as you give your best and all to help anyone in need without being asked you are making a big difference to your own life. Such situations give you a better perspective about life which isn't only about you i.e. career, relationships, money, wealth, success etc

We often get bogged down when we fall on our face but least do we realize that there is a good reason behind the fall. Sometimes in our lives we take decisions too impulsively and it really doesn't matter even if it was in the best interest of all the people you love or care about. These fall/s in your life have such valuable lessons and for the ones who lead a completely cautious life this would not make sense. Sometimes in life it is worth taking a chance and there is no guarantee that being smart would help you save your face all the time. From others perspective there would always be better way of handling any given situation. Least do they realize unless they were in a similar situation. Like I always say " Easier said than done"!

I'm glad I decided to take certain decisions impulsively because without those events in my life I would not have been able to discover myself. And, I'm loving each moment I realize certain things about myself which were waiting to be discovered. I'm sure that recognizing and making my spirit really happy has made a lot of difference to my life and others around me. I love my life!

Thanks for reading & hope you enjoyed reading this post :-)

Someday when I'm awfully low ....

I just love this song cause it brings a smile to my face every time I listen to it. Oops! the song is "The way you look tonight" by Frank Sinatra. It is one of my favorite songs coz I really liked it in "My Best Friends Wedding" which starred Julia Roberts! She is am amazing actor and love watching her movies.

I love having few good friends, hehehe it sounds like "a few good men". I don't know why i thought of that now :-) Well, through my blogs you would sense that I need to get myself a job cause I'm just loosing it at the moment especially. It is very difficult when you become independent to ask anyone for money. Parents are always there for you and it is only them you think of approaching in difficult times.

Sometimes in life you have an option of walking down the path which you've always wanted to and want the most. And when such an opportunity presents itself who would want to let it go. Since I want to move into the area of teaching children, I would need to get myself qualified for that. And, need to get a part time job which would obviously help me till such a time I am officially qualified. I would love to pursue my career as an integral part of my life and so I need to really get into a field I'm passionate about. I just cant imagine otherwise :-)

Loads to do and looking forward to what this year has in store for me :-)

Take care and thanks for reading!

Smile people life isnt that bad

Whenever I step outside home I realize how cynical the world has become. Everyone is so self involved that they rarely realize that there are other people around them. Most of them with frowns on their face off to work or school or college or morning walk.

I guess at some point in time we all forget that life isn't as bad as we perceive it. I'm sure everyone has our share of ups and downs in life and no one's life is perfect. If you feel that someone looks like they are leading a perfect life, think again :-)

Every person is different and so is the way we think. I agree that you cant be yourself in all the given situations but there is no harm in being yourself. How long are you going to be that person trying to keep everyone happy and within you are unhappy? Believe me sooner or later they will showcase this unhappiness in their life around them and ruin everything.

Compassion is such an important thing in life and so is living life to the fullest every moment. And believe me we all know to lead our lives in the most artistic possible way and we don't have to go looking for that anywhere. Snap out of any negative mood or phase that you maybe in cause nothing is permanent.

Smile is the most wonderful expression to connect to anyone. Whenever I see a kid or an animal it makes me smile. But looking at the stressful lives people are leading its scary. People find it hard to laugh about the silliest things in life and take life way to seriously. I do know that if you got to live in a society you would have certain dos and donts'. But come on people, we are the ones who made these rules and change it according to our convenience. So, why not change it to enrich our lives.

Life is really beautiful and each moment there is so much to learn and explore. Start by making a list of things you would want to do and reassess it every time. And this list shouldn't contain of our goals with respect to our careers or personal lives. For a change think about doing something nice for someone and that is "Smile".

The world would definitely need more smiles than ever now with so much negativity everywhere. So SMILE!!!!

Black or White - What's Grey??

Inspired by Lycra I write this post :-) Every person is do different and for me there is no grey area as it is either black or white for me. I know that leading one's life this way is easier said than done but no one told you that life is a bed of roses. Sweetheart, if you want the rose you need to accept the thorns as well.

Similarly, when we meet anyone for the first time you know whether or not you can get along with that person. There is a small voice inside of you which tells you everything and asking too many people can only leave you in a confused state of mind. Well, I personally haven't paid much attention to this voice inside of me while taking some really important decisions in my life. And, leading a reckless lifestyle in terms of my spirit has only made me understand myself better. When we understand ourselves better we know what we want out of life and so we will tend to attract those things into our lives miraculously. Whether it is regarding any decisions you have to make about your career, life partner, money or goals.

No one knows our potential more than we do and that's the advantage of knowing oneself completely. If you can't spend some quality time with yourself and always around people or occupied with some activity or the other, you are truly missing a lot in life. If you like being with yourself then you are taking a giant step in getting to know yourself.

There have been instances where others have identified certain traits in me which would help me in my career or personal life and I myself wasn't aware of those characteristics. I can completely relate to every event in my life now and see so clearly now. If I probably hadn't taken those decisions those events wouldn't have been a part of my life and I wouldn't be enjoying my life to the fullest now :-)

So, for me its either black or white and I really don't believe in anything grey. So, this makes life so simple for me and I live each moment instead of getting stressed with what the next moment holds for me.

Have a nice day and thank you for reading!

Easier said than done

Every single time anyone goes through a broken relationship it takes a lot to not get bitter and have an open mind towards anyone who might enter your life. That's the reason I said its easier said than done :-)

Most of us become so cautious that we do not have an open mind when it comes to staying happy in life. Everyone deserves to be happy and those who say that they'd rather be single than get hurt will have to ask themselves this question again. We build a wall around ourselves so that we don't go down that road again.

Life is really beautiful and with time we all heal and start thinking positively about relationships. If it is not possible how could one "love like you've never been hurt before". Since every person is different so is every relationship. So, if we are stuck up with experiences from the past then we will ruin our present. So, think about it and give yourself time whenever your heart is broken and begin with a small step by being positive.