Friday, June 19, 2009

Sculpted body


Don't ask me how I thought of writing this today :-) I have put on quite a few pounds and need to start doing something about it. It is uncomfortable to wear anything when you seemed to have put on 5-6 kgs. As if it wasn't necessary that I had a few extra pounds myself :-) Most of us hate exercising or being fit. The idea of going to a gym irks me so I cant imagine actually signing up for one. I used to go for my brisk walks but that has also been discontinued since I started working after a really long time and getting used to this lifestyle. What an excuse?? LOL So, I was wondering whats with women and their size zero or whatever. How can they be that way? They look like they may die any moment. Recently, heard our own size zero queen said that she is happy to have gotten back to her usual self. Thank God! I'm glad she realized that she looks much better not being a size zero :-)

The best possible thing to do is to go back thousands of years where people used to not wear anything. It takes a lot to be naked and if at all we have to do that in today's world then there are two things that come to my mind, that is - everyone would be forced to maintain a superfit body cause they cant be showcasing bulges or extra curves LOL. Another funny thing is that men folk would be cursing themselves when they are turned on LOLzzzzz. That would be the best thing that could probably happen to our men folk. I am giggling while writing this.

Anyways, this wasn't the reason I wanted to write this post, not totally ;-) Well, its high time I put my fitness plan into place and more than anything implement the same. So that I don't feel lethargic on a few days. Take care and thanks for reading!

Do leave your comments as that would help me write a lot about other interesting things :-)

Tuesday, June 9, 2009

Hey gal the other woman isn't your enemy :-)



I love dedicating my posts to the people who inspired me to write about a certain subject :-) This blog post goes out to all the women who I've met in my life and mostly on the work front and a few acquaintances or friends if I may say so ;-) I've always seen women getting crazy usually due to PMS and that's acceptable but being in that state permanently is hazardous for only "YOU".

Every other woman whether she appears happy or enthusiastic in life has loads of crap to deal with. Its not only you that is dealing with issues in life. Life is a bitch and its the same for everyone and God gives each of us our share of joy as well as sorrow. And our lives are what we've made of them so I really don't understand that reason behind judging another woman based on her past or her habits or amazingly positive outlook to life.

I have come across so many women who don't understand or have never heard of the term "soul sisters". Its not necessary that every other woman you meet could be your soul sis but don't bite her head off just because you have issues with your life. Its your life and frankly I don't care about it if I am not bothered by it :-) Call me a bitch or whatever, I don't care. I am what I am and frankly I am here to build a fantastic career for myself and have a excellent personal life.

Please understand that its not my problem that you cant sort out things in your life. You choose your relationships, children, job etc etc

So stop biting my head off and first ask yourself "why you are so freaking frustrated with yourself, that you show it to the next positive woman who intimidates you". Take a hike woman! I don't care a shit for people with bad attitude and narrow mindedness.

Wednesday, June 3, 2009

Soulmate


All of us look or rather most of us look for soul mates in our lives and in the process we meet up with several people intentionally or otherwise. Having a soul mate is like having a friend for life and this soul mate is usually your partner for life. It is very difficult to be yourself completely or rather in all situations so it would be a lot more harder to identify the soul mate you are looking for.

Many relationships start with false expectations as people are not being themselves. They are in a mode of pleasing the other person and this is seriously a red alert! I have experienced as well as heard others talk about relationships which have changed drastically and that is really scary. I do agree that once you stay together all the likes and dislikes are a lot more evident. However, that doesn't stop us from being ourselves when we are dating someone. If you are doing that then you are headed for some serious trouble for yourself especially.

Most people go looking after a soul mate subconsciously and people usually are the in extreme zone i.e. either too open minded or completely not ready for someone. The idea is to take each day as it comes along with people and events, than to fight it. Through the normal course of these days you would realize that being with the ideal person is more important than just living for others. Its your life! So, take charge of it, otherwise you will repent.

I am reminded of the song "Say" from the movie Bucket List and song by "John Mayer". This song so beautifully describes that we need to address our issues then and there by communicating or speaking about things that are actually bothering us. Keeping our feelings bottled up is like a volcano erupting when its gets too much! So, we wouldnt want that to happen to us or anyone else. So "say what you need to say".